tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5627232693708383685.post5237126665733048237..comments2016-02-10T08:48:11.321-08:00Comments on It's Miller Time: Genectically PredisposedSarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02329034470301944500noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5627232693708383685.post-39468172797919101522011-11-18T05:35:51.435-08:002011-11-18T05:35:51.435-08:00Whether your a nervous person or not this is a ner...Whether your a nervous person or not this is a nerve racking situation. You can't see or feel your baby yet and can constantly wonder "is everything ok in there?!?" This is normal. This is your body's way of getting you ready to parent. Because when your little miracle joins us in the outside world you won't be able to always see or feel them either. Parenting is hard and wonderful. Welcome from one Mommy to another, from me to you! xorsjablonskihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15130788236970040214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5627232693708383685.post-28604300147406349772011-11-17T17:30:13.126-08:002011-11-17T17:30:13.126-08:00I'm an anxious person too. I also make myself...I'm an anxious person too. I also make myself sick with the nerves and even break out in hives. My Mom was the exact same way. It's in our family and I know that regardless of telling myself that I need to calm down, I don't. My Dad even bought me a wooden sign that hangs in our den that says "Get Over It" but I never can. Especially with infertility. We are so excited about our transfer on Monday BUT I'm still thinking like I did with IUI's "Sure... it'll happen. I've heard that before". Like I'm setting myself up for failure. Even my inlaws talk like we are already pregnant and frankly it drives me nuts. It will make it that much worse in the even that our FET doesn't take. People say I need a better outlook but the fact that I've graduate from a pessimist to a realist is progress. I don't think I'll ever be an optimist. It's just not in me. I agree with Faith though. You will enjoy those babies so much more. I know how Faith is with her babies compared to some of our other friends out here and my friends back home. Hell I feel I appreciate my nephew and niece so much more than most people. (Don't get me started on my SIL & BIL and their daughter...). I do agree that you need to step away from the INTERNET and reading so much form time to time. I feel it's made me more paranoid and some of the info I've found doesn't match up with anything my RE has told me. Frankly he is the professional so I am going to follow his advice. Lucky for me they accept all my crazy frantic phone calls.Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05409107120984060731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5627232693708383685.post-25862956950110468482011-11-16T07:14:32.275-08:002011-11-16T07:14:32.275-08:00Yeah, I was like that too. Especially with my his...Yeah, I was like that too. Especially with my history. But, it did get better for me after about 20 weeks - when I was showing, could feel her move and knew she was a girl. I did worry, I did have my moments for sure, but not as often or as intense. And, honestly, now that I have her (and Jax), I wouldn't have wanted to go through it any other way because I appreciate them SO much more than my fertile friends understand. I live and breathe my kids, and some of my fertile friends think I'm crazy for some of the things I do - but I don't waste a single second. And I breathe them in every day, I soak in their smell, their soft skin, their beauty. Every day, multiple times a day. I'm not sure every mom does that. So I paid a price, but it is SO worth it - you'll see:).Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03064955747540959696noreply@blogger.com